15 - Friendship means a lot!
Hello there Bloggers! Do you think I'm done here based on my blog post number 14? Uh, Uh... Not either, I'm just getting you excited on the last part of the chapter of being a great friend. Just like what my friend told me when we both together solving the mathematical equation, "Pinapakilig ka lang." :)
And here it is the last chapter of that book:
And here it is the last chapter of that book:
CHAPTER VI: How to keep your friendship
There are some things that we should
know in able to keep our friendship long and strong. This chapter tackles about
the simple things that we should know in keeping a friendship like taking down
notes that are short and sweet that everyone enjoys receiving them. Books are
also a good source of information and insight into human nature. Trough books
both you and your friend can seek out self-improvement. If you want that your
friendship last, one of the most important things is to be honest with your
friend. It is important to verbalize what you feel, your insight and even your
dislikes because sometimes if we keep hiding our true emotion our friend might
not be aware of how we feel. There are also simple things that we should always
do in able to keep our friends. Always make it to a point to find out when our
friends' birthdays are and mark them on our calendar. And also we should learn
to celebrate because when good friends celebrate victories and milestone with
each other it deepens the love and appreciation between them. Clipping articles
and save coupons that has a sentimental value with our friends could also an
easy way to let our friends know that we are thinking of them when we are
apart. There are so many ways that we can keep our friendship for so many years
that’s why we should exert effort with them. According to Abraham Lincoln
"Friendship comprise the greatest part of one's life.
I can say that the books can also be a
good source of information and insight into human nature. This book is about
tips on how an individual become a great friend in this circle of friends and
even to his new friend. The author gave different tips and lesson on how to
become a good friend, supportive, sensitive, keeping friendship, become
positive and overcome problems. From the concept introduce by the author I have
learned that simple things like greeting your friends’ everyday will strengthen
the bond between the two of you. Sometimes shyness prohibits us to make new
friends, in this book I learned that in simply saying Hello! You can have a new
friend. And then if you wanted your friendship to last you must exert effort
and work on with your relationship. Like what others say our friends are our
second family and so we should love them and respect their "dos" and
"dont’s". But on the other hand friendship is not always happiness;
there are times that our friendship goes along the hard time.
As an individual we have our very own circle of
friends. I do also have circle of friends in school, neighbors and even in the
church. Most of my friends are those who have a same interest and hobbies as I
do. Sometimes I am a shy person and so I always want them to approach me rather
to introduce myself first. Most of my friends are those who they called
"isip bata". From this book I have learned so many things especially tip
about friendship. This book also helps me to know more about how to adjust to
the preferences and limitations of my friends. I know that even though we share
common interest still they do have their own preferences and I should respect
it in able to protect our friendship. I have also learned that positivity is
important in friendship. We should always believe the best of people and see those
best things about them rather than the negatives in them. As a Roman Catholic I
do also believe that if we wanted our friendship to be strong and deepens God
should be the center o f it. I do also pray for my friends especially those who
need guidance from Him. I see my friends as my second family. There are some
thoughts and personal issue that I prefer to tell with them than my family.
Friendship really means a lot to all of us. Friends are life. Friends are love. Keep up the good work! Don't stop inspiring us! :)
ReplyDeleteI can really feel your emotion in this blog of yours because I can totally relate to it. Great job Julius and keep up the good work!
ReplyDeleteEven though love doesn't last, Friendship lasts forever
ReplyDeleteWe all need friends. No man is an island. That's why we have each other :3
ReplyDeleteThank you for your wise words, Julius. I'll be using some of your advice to improve my relationship with my friends.
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